The Autobiography of JoreJj Z. Elprehzleinn
The Programs that Keep Lovers Apart

Making love sexually is to me the most wonderful, beautiful and important energy to create in life. Choice. In choosing to make that choice to feel and know and be that way I became an expert on programming. An expert primarily on the programming that keeps lovers apart.

First of all I want to lay out a few things that I recently learned from a women that I was blessed to spend some time with. She explained to me about words. Words as you know are related to programming and programming is related to thoughts and feelings, choices and decisions, beliefs and attitudes.

She explained that the word "she" contains and includes, "he". "Goddess" (the word) contains and includes the word, "God". The word, "women", contains and includes the word, "men". She was the first person I ever met since I spent time with Voon Muhn Rahn from 1993-2000 approximately who also agreed with the observation that there are programs in the world that stop lovers from being together.

I just call them, "the things that TRY to stop lovers from being together." Keep in mind that I believe/feel/know that lovers being together is all that matters in this world.

For example I have projects and goals and dreams for making a business corporation that I have been working on for about 20 years. I am ambitious and clear and focused and deliberate about what I am doing with that and have accomplished a lot and have more to accomplish.

I am a super alpha male about all that. Or so it seems. Actually that is me working with the programming. I have a male body so I am involved with what are called the male programs.

So it would seem. I am going somewhere with this which is to say that I also am involved with the female programs. Like we all are. Because you know what I would glady get together with a woman that I felt safety and security with who has a business or a business dream that is something she wants me to get involved with and support.

A woman like that would be in the male female programming language considered to be expressing more male if she has an ambitious business project that she is passionate about that she feels is her destiny that...

And then if I supported her with all my skills and abilities and was her lover and got involved with supporting our health and nutrition and was her companion...

Then it seems like we switched ROLES?!

And I would gladly do it that way. Because the male and female programs we both have them. And the programs go on and on a list a mile long of what a man is supposed to do and what woman is supposed to do. Like a web conspiring it seems sometimes to prevent love from occurring and conscious clear relationship that includes making love sexual and long term partnership to CREATIVELY unfold.

So want to share some more understanding about where and how these programs that seem to try and prevent men and women from getting together arise?

I only spent a short time less than three months with that woman that shared about the words with me so wisely and then our time was over. Before her for about a year I was involved in love with another woman who handed me a book by Phyliss Currott, entitled: "Book of Shadows".

In the book she describes her journey as a New York City attorney who discovered the truth about witches and being a witch. Her book was a major turning point in my life because as I said making love sexually is the most important thing to me and living that way and from that energy as source and center of all other choice and creativity about life.

Her book brought clear to me what I had been sensing and feeling for decades and working with personally and professionally.

In her description of the history of the holocaust against women that was the historical time of the witch burnings and all of that which was involved with that.

Now you would clearly think in reading that history that men tormented women and created the devil and did the most horrendous things to women.

And that is right. However what if you look at it from the point of view that I do? That all that matters is lovers making love. And that there are programs that come from Goddess knows where or why to stop lovers.

All that hundreds and hundreds of years of separation causing deep unconscious creating wounding was done to BOTH men and women.

I can tell you from my decades of observation and experience that the things that try and stop lovers from getting together seem to do one thing consistently. The try and make them see the other one as a threat. They try and divide them.

To get one of them to look like the perpetrator and the other one to look like the victim or any other combination.

It is my lifetime (so far) experience that it is easy to overcome all programming that stops lovers. And you should. Here are some of my guidelines:

1. Just ignore anything and everything that results in any kind of disharmony or separation between any two or more people who want to be lovers regardless of sexuality meaning gender and also meaning the inner male and the inner female. Just make love and follow where it leads you in your heart and soul in your life.

2. Being in love, being a lover, is the connection to the ultimate magic, the ultimate source of life and being creative with life and loving life and having a great life. Being a lover, being loving, making love always prevails. It is in fact not even prevailing, there is no good and evil. There is only love. If you see it any other way, those programs have got you!

3. Anything or anyone that says "men are like this, and women are like that" is caught by the programming that stops men and women from being together. Anyone that is talking about lovers and making love and about the love part of it, NOT the men do this and women do that part of it, the part about being lovers that is what you listen to. The part about being lovers. Not the part about men do this and women do that.

There are I think and feel and sense and know and have experienced in action many programs that try to stop lovers. Let me conclude this chapter by sharing withyou another example. Before I do that I want you to know that my sense of my own life is that all my work is completely motivated by my desire to do everything can to make love and be in love and be a lover despite the programming that tries to stop lovers from being together in love.

And that just being conscious of these things and making your own free choices about what feels right to you is something you can do. You can just relax and be and love and live, these programs only have power if you embrace them. And for those programs that we all have embedded in us, or that are out there in the collective pool of unconscious thought your consciousness choice and freedom and awareness is a powerful light.

And I am with you in that. In being in love, in being a lover, in being free.

Ok how about that program that men choose women based on how "hot" they are, and women choose men based on how safe and secure "rich" they are?

If you think that program is not out there, or you say you do not believe in that you see that is not the point of this chapter. This is not about what you or I believe in. We believe in lovers and being and freedom and making love. We know that, right?

This is about being comfortable seeing clearly that there are programs that have nothing to do with lovers making love except that they try and stop them.

Being free doesn't mean fighting against something that has no power in the first place. Getting all worked up about these programs that stop lovers is part of how they function.

Just relax and be a lover making love and enjoy your life being in love. Love is the most potent magic of them all. It certainly can handle a few programs, including the "hot girl", "rich guy" and the myriad of others that seem so prevalent.